Posts tagged ‘wisdom’
Only I can decide what to think, feel, say and do. No one else.
It all starts from within. Choosing with awareness, what I allow in my space. Not just what I say or do, but also what I think and feel.
Taking full responsibility for myself – the only one I can take full responsibility for- means to cleanse my mind from toxic energies, toxic thoughts. Allowing only positive to occupy my space inside out. Through practice, awareness and discipline with patience and perserverance. This is part of how I choose to create happiness, joy and harmony in my life. Both for myself and for others around me, because if I am not happy I affect others around me with my energy. Polluting their space with my energy, which I am not interested in doing.
I choose to take full responsibility for myself and live a happy life 😃🌈💚💛🌻🌟🙏🏻
Why do we look for answers outside of ourselves when we have it all inside of us?
Getting empowered, becoming more aware of oneself, having more knowledge on how to process our own stuff in order to reach mastery, we still at times forget to listen within and trust our selves. Instead of remembering that we don’t really need any other guru than ourselves we still tend to go on the outside and hand our power over to others.
We can get valuable information, inspiration and knowledge from others, but we don’t have to buy into anything and everything. With both feet on the ground and a great portion of discernment we can stand in our own power, humbly being our own guru, leading our lives as the example we wish to see in the world.
The power we have as individuals is often forgotten or even unknown to many. It’s time to remember who we are and take our power back fully to be the guru we all are.
In living light and love <3
A very dear friend of mine helped me in a brutal, but profound way, about 10 years ago to see that I talked a lot of how things should be and not be, giving a lot of good advice, but not living it myself.
It was a bit shocking to begin with as I couldn’t really see it and accept it myself, but it was absolutely true. True and a turning point for me, since I realized how important it really is to walk my talk. It is important to me in my life and something that I really believe in. If I can’t walk my talk then I am not trustworthy. Words spoken are empty unless we live them.
Everything that manifests starts with a thought, but every thought isn’t taken into action. And those thoughts that matters really needs to be reflected into manifested actions as well to follow through fully, which is why it is such a good thing to be aware of what we are thinking as well. Aware of what we are thinking and how that matches what we are actually saying and doing. Aware of what we are feeling as well. Awareness all in all is a basic key, as I see it. Awareness of Self first of all. Everything begins with the Self and comes from within. What is on the inside is reflected on the outside.
Part of being authentic is to walk my talk, to be authentic inside out. Getting there can be done in several ways. In my case it started with that brutal insight I described above, followed by a decision to change and follow through on my decision. Having full awareness of my thoughts, feelings, reactions on the inside to be able to consciously choose my actions accordingly. It may sound easy, but it has taken quite a while to do this fully, and I am still watching my lower ego carefully, monitoring myself every day, throughout the day to make sure I stay true to this.
The more tricky parts can involve what is not on a conscious level, since it’s hidden. With practicing full awareness and using appropriate tools that resonate with who I am, I am able to have those parts of myself become visible on a conscious level as well.
What would those tools be then?
I follow and practice the work that is channeled by ascended Masters through Michelle Manders (michellemanders.com). I’ve done this since about 2009 and continue to do it, because it works, quite simply put. When I found her and her work back then I was extremely sceptic to channeled material, because there is so much low quality stuff out there. With trying out her channelings I was deeply and profoundly affected by it – undeniably – and with the teachings from these Masters ( Kuthumi-Agrippa and Mary Magdalene being two of them) It is high quality material. I have had quite an awesome ride on my life journey, evolving as a spiritual human being in an amazing way I had never expected. These Masters have walked on Earth and thus they know what we are facing. They are talking their walk, in the sense that they walked their talk when on earth and now they are teaching from that experience and perspective. Michelle is a very skilled medieval astrologer, highly psychic with a lot of other skills in her back pocket as well. Check her and her work out if you are interested. There are live free channelings open for anyone interested if you want to try it on. You can also find free recordings and transcripts on her website.
So, I stick to my decision to walk my talk, because it resonates with me and who I want to be in this world, living in truth, being authentic. 🙂
How about you? 😉
In love and light <3
We have so much to learn from the indigenous people around the world. Native Americans are very close to my heart and these Youtube clips are about the 2 different life paths according to the Hopi people.
It is time for us to rise up together as One and choose our path in service of Mother Earth and all of humanity.
Enjoy in joy❣💚💜🙏🏻🌈
When we deal with changing and shifting deep, old programming patience and perserverance is needed along with compassion with ourselves to be able to transform and transcend.
Trusting has been one of my greatest challenges. Still there are many different aspects to it. For me putting trust into trusting the process of coming to fully trusting works as a meta trust and helps me getting to the state of trust I intend for.
And so the journey continues 💚💜🎶🙏🏻
There is one thing that many healers have in common: the drive to heal others is greater than the individual’s need or want for healing from that specific healer or in general.
Some people just don’t want me or anyone else to help them, even if I could and even if I believe that I really am able to.
To always ask for permission before helping others and to only help if help is asked for is fundamental. To me it’s a matter of basic integrity and free will based choice.
But so many healers (and therapists in general) don’t even recognize this and step over boundaries to help others, without asking for permission, just because they want to.
What is the driving force that wants us to help others even though help isn’t asked for or wanted? That is what we need to ask ourselves when we get into situations where we are turned down and judge another’s choice of not wanting help or assistance. The answer is often based on the lower ego wanting recognition and confirmation, being the saviour. Boosting the lower ego, low self-esteem and subconscious insecurities. That combined with poor boundaries and taking on too much responsibility which also is about reducing other peoples own power, making them small.
The most challenging part in this may be when it comes to family members. Eapecially as a parent with young adults. Where you still are the parent, but your child is of an age where your parenting is not to take over the full responsibility for your child, but more of a supportive character, coaching the young one into adulthood. If the young adult doesn’t want your help as a parent it should be respected as well as with everyone else, though it may be much morepainful than with other people. A basic question in that case would also to be if the parent is too involved and too close already to be the best choice in that kind of situation as well.
In any case: we always need permission in order to help others and we also need to accept and respect their choices. We don’t have the full picture. Maybe that soul has another path to go and I am not included in it. Or maybe I will be at an other point in time. .
I am good enough even if my help and assistance isn’t wanted.
It’s all good. 😊
In love and light/